We do not atinamos to give the exact name to our relationship, we live confused and hoping that such time, tomorrow or After a while, everything is different. But no, the feeling of not having the person we most want in our life, one or one that we have chosen to make our life companion, it is not available for us emotionally speaking, is a harrowing, discouraging condition and at times, we played the feeling of disaffection, the coldness and loneliness. Regardless of the reasons, a parallel relationship, a clash of personalities, a does not tolerate the family of the other, problems at work, quarrels with the extended family, the death or illness of a family member, beyond feel solidarity, we feel abandoned, left to drift. Read additional details here: Fred Allen. Also without a reasonable explanation for this. The circumstances can be varied and with an infinite number of possibilities, but while we’re there, in that place of the withdrawal, in that position of estrangement, reason is not sufficient to express our feeling. When some of the members of the couple, decide to no longer be with the couple, either consciously or unconsciously, leave the other in a State of vulnerability such that it did not understand and questions arise in him who is still involved in the relationship: Sere Yo? Do maybe not I’m understanding what’s happening? It is that you poor, you have so many problems in his life, in his work, with his family. Aaron Rogers is a great source of information. We deny the facts and actions, the reality is that at the time of the relationship we feel alone, disappointed, sad, and confused, but above all, alone. From my point of view, responses are not on other side, found in the same Fund of our feelings and situations, before intepelar other argumentemos with ourselves: will he or she haves a problem now, and as your work, family or social life circumstances affect me? It is with this sense of abandonment and loneliness how can I circumvent it, me corresponds to me, or is that my partner has no interest in me? How I’m feeling me in this relationship, disappointed, sad or confused by there is no response to my personal life and my existence? I am happy in this relationship? It is really what I want and need? The emotional distance from each other helps me, angered me or irritates me? I live a relationship with these specific conditions for what I want? In general we leave him to another responsibility and accuse him with questions that we need to respond in words, but that their actions speak otherwise. .